I've mounted them behind the light, on the backside of the frame, and now they're tucked up above the light. Although JJ said where you mount them isn't important.
I've tried grounds together and separate as well with neither having a difference. I haven't ohmed my grounds, I'll go into work tomorrow and get my multimeter and check them.
Now the capacitor isn't working either. The lights are reading headlight out, parking light out and the turn signal stops again. So back to square negative zero. It works if I turn the headlights on though.
I don't understand how the passenger side has no issues. It works almost all the time. It's only the driver's side, and they're mounted and grounded in the same way.
EDIT: in the interest of science I removed both grounds and it worked until the turn signal on to long flash came on
then the turn signal out warning tripped but everything worked fine except inside it was ticking fast
Then I regrounded and instantly the light started freaking out. So I though why not unplug the resistors. Did that and no errors no codes yet. Everything works so far?