Originally I had thought that installing a cooler engine thermostat would in turn allow the 8-speed to run cooler, but unfortunately that doesn't happen. Engine coolant is used to get the transmission hot in the transmission heater (or up to operating temperature to use Mopar's propaganda) quickly. It works in conjunction with the TBV to keep the temps hot.
When I still was running the OEM T-stat (203 degrees), my trans temperatures were 185 - 188 while cruising on the highway. After installing a 180 degree T-stat, the trans temps are exactly the same. After an aggressive pass, I've seen trans temps spike to over 195, and then take a long time to drop back to the 188-185 range thanks to the TBV, because even when open, it doesn't allow full flow of cooled ATF.
The TBV is the little device that keeps the trans temps artificially hot. It does not allow any ATF, after being cooled in the trans cooler, to return to the transmission, until the ATF is at least 180 degrees. Once at that temp, the TBV opens a little, letting some cooled ATF mingle with the hotter fluid. A few times I've seen trans temps drop to 179 for a second or two, then it jumps right back to 185+ when the TBV closes. The engine thermostat really has no effect on transmission temperatures once everything is warmed up.
Bottom line is the TBV is a thermal management device that Mopar uses to make the 8-speed run at temperatures which yield slightly better fuel economy, in my view, at the expense of some transmission life. How much of a fuel economy improvement is unknown compared to a transmission running at say 160 degrees.
Mopar, or any OEM for that matter, is really only concerned about component life for the duration of the standard warranty period. After that, it's not their problem. I'll also bet that the # of buyers who opt for the extended warranty is statistically small compared to the entire buyer population, and any "failures" in the extended period are regarded as a financially manageable risk. The transmission thermal management devices are a fuel economy ploy to improve their CAFE, however small, because improvements = $$, thanks to putative regulations from our government.
For those who never plan on keeping their trucks past 100K miles, or trade after several years, it's not an issue. For those who tend to use a vehicle up, it's something that bears addressing in my view.