Well,
after a LOT of banging with my BFH, I got the ball joints out. You basically have to chisel all of the flange away, then procede to beat the living hell out of the ball joint til it decides to drop out! The press helped some, but I think the hammer worked better.
Anyhow, my drop is done, other than the front drop shocks and alignment. I am ordering the right shocks now. Hopefully they will get here soon so I can get my ram back on the road with a fresh stance and proper alignment.
What should the total drop be? I used the McGaughy's 2, 4.5" kit. I measured 20" from the middle of my wheel to the top of the wheel well on the front pre-drop, 18.4" after, so 1.6". The rear I measured 22.25" pre-drop, 18"after, so 4.25" drop. (That was with removing the overload and adding drop shocks.)
Is this typical? The front I just did, so it may settle and the drop shocks might help as well. I drove it to town today after installing the front to help it settle some.
BTW-I will get pics up asap. Right now I'm just trying to get back on the road!