Thanks for that insight Ryan. OP ......never heard of an AEM standalone! Will have to look into that depth of 03 knowledge.
Trans upgrades. If I ever had my Trans worked on by someone else I would add to what I have in my signature. The following: Big Snap Ring from the Transgo Stage 2 and a set of those expensive $700 clutches, a deeper belly Pan w/Temp Guage sensor ability, a sharadon stage 3 Valve Body, and would try the sonnax instead of the Transgo Resistor add-on.
If you are building something Over The Top Then Just Buy a Complete Sharadon Stage 3Tranny and leave it at that!
Like I said before, I avoid 2nd gear prime, use Od/Off or downshift with the Mega Shifter but With 4.56 gears on the Highway I have never gone over 150 (KPH) anyways. I have 150 K miles now and my Tranny is just fine. These 3Rd Gen Trucks are fun on the street but are in no way Kings on the Highway, that is where the Mopar LX's Rule.
Keep us posted on your Build and remember in the end its your Truck and your Mod decisions......either way you will get great support from the RF group here. Welcome and post up your name and a pic of your 03. Danny