Are you 100% positive about the purple wire being in pin 28?
If so, hmm...
- If you have good enough access and some patience, you can take the connector apart to depopulate pin 28.
Generally, there will be some sort of TPA lock (terminal pin assurance) on the front that will need release or removed, then a small screw driver inserted to release the pin's lock to pull the pin out the back (I haven't messed with this connector before but other have).
- 109% sure? Really sure? Cut the the wire off and use a scotch lock to splice it over to org/db wire at pin 45.
(Leave a 2" lead off the cut pin just in case and heat shrink or take it up)
Soldering is the preferred method as mentioned.
- Take it back to the dealer that effed up the install to fix that pin 28/45 issue. That way if there are any other weird electrical/BCM problems later you can blame them. Get pictures of the connector/their error.
Edit: post 10 may have a link to some pictures of people doing the depopulating.
Edit 2: Nickster did it. Start at this post for pictures and possibly pm him (but he hasn't posted in a year) ...
http://www.ramforum.com/showthread.php?p=979047