Like i stated before you'll get lots of opinions, something I forgot to add, but I usually suggest a used oil analysis to people who ask me this. Every engine is different oil blends change about every 6 months and you need to know what's best for you. I suggest you go to blackstonelabs.com order a free kit. Find an oil you want to use run it take the sample, pay $35 and send it in. Get the TBN and TAN. You'll get a good idea of correct oil change intervals as well as an over all engine condition.
That said there are some things about oil I can tell you are fact(just recently I attended a engine lubrication seminar).
The specified weight on the bottle has little meaning. A 5w20 can be thicker than a 10w30.
The centistoke measurement is what counts, don't buy into the synthetic BS, there are no regulations in america on synthetics I can **** in a bottle and sell it for $10 a qt and call it synthetic race oil.
Though some synthetic oils are good they're also a waste of money. I suggest an oil that meets Chrysler ms-6395 standards. I run valvoline 5w20 6395 compliant and Blackstone says my engine is beautiful inside at 150k of towing hauling and SEVERE abuse off road.
This sir is fact.