I have an 02 1500 with the tow package and the previous owner installed a trailer brake controller. I am trying to track down a draw and am removing anything not stock: aftermarket horn, aftermarket alarm and this trailer brake. I have located the blue plug mounted atop a larger white connection as in this picture Installing a Brake Control on a Vehicle Equipped with a Factory Towing Package this is a little silly, but while on my back looking up and sideways whilst holding a flashlight I can't seem to figure out how to disconnect it.... Squeeze both side, lift on the top, both? Any tips? My fingers appreciate it!