Not even going to bother. Take too long to explain and doubt it would be understood, once done.
4wd does not give you less overall power or torque....it gives you the same power/torque (unless you put it in 4wd low, then the torque increases substantially, but the power would still be the same).
The difference is now 1/2 of the power is going to the front axle, and 1/2 is going to the rear on a normal 4wd vehicle.
On the rams, if you have it in 4 auto or even 4 lock, you will have full power to the rear axle until the front engages, then it will split front to rear.
4wd also does not really give you more traction, you can never have more than the traction provided by 4 tires touching the ground and not spinning/slipping unless you have more than 4 tires.
What it does do is provide power/torque to the front axle so you can use the traction from your front tires as well as the traction from the rears to drive out with, so you can use all
available traction, but it does not really give you more.
I have driven a lot of vehicles and towed a lot of trailers/campers/boats, some light in comparison to the towing vehicle, some were several times the weight of the towing vehicle.
Every tow vehicle was 4x4, and the only times I ever felt I needed 4wd was:
1) while turning a 24' gooseneck trailer around in a field covered by 2' of snow
2) when I launched the boat from the muddy bank because the ramp was rutted to bad to launch from without high centering the trailer and the truck
3) the ramp was icy from fishing a tournament in 30 deg weather
4) backing a camper up a steep dirt hill
I have launched & recovered boats where the ramp was so steep, you connected the bow eye to the winch strap, and then drove up the ramp slowly to let the boat sit/settle down onto the trailer. Only used that ramp once, as it was too steep to use safely in my opinion, and there is no way I would attempt to use it if the ramp was wet where the truck sat. It literally was so steep, the boat would start floating off the trailer BEFORE the trailer tires were in the water. If you backed in at a normal speed, you'd put water over the transom of the boat and ruin your day.
BTW, I used 2wd & 1st gear to launch & recover, not 4wd.
Granddad had a big sized saltwater boat (30' or so I think) that we went fishing in every weekend, and he never had 4wd, always a dodge van, or car (usually big plymouth fury's). I don't remember him ever having any real issues with launch & recovery.
Dad never had a 4wd or even truck, and it never stopped him either from going fishing in the boat. He does have an expedition now, since almost all cars are FWD and not rated for towing a boat, but it is still 2wd.