You could always swap out for the regular 2500 rear coils or add airbags to a PW. This will help a bunch, but still may not be legal depending on weight. The truck will pull just fine though if you also upgrade to E rated tires as they come with D stock. Again this is all based on your trailer/tongue weights.
I wanted a diesel, but they can get real expensive when the warranty expires. It’s common for the fuel injection pump to fail. Ram upgraded the pump late in 2020 and made a change from the asymmetrical cam CP4.2 to a new symmetrical CP4.2, likely in a bid to solve some injection pump issues late in 2020. I suggest to do your homework and confirm the truck has the newer version of the pump. Lots of info out there on this subject.
“While supplying high-pressure fuel is an injection pump's job, the CP4 does so with a high probability of failing (typically around the 100,000-mile mark) and leaving owners with a need to overhaul their truck's entire fuel system, at a cost that can be anywhere between $8,000 and $10,000”
decisions decisions decisions....maybe a 6.4 3500 fits the bill as you can always add lockers...