Me and the boss lady were driving her Jeep Compass Limited the other day. She has her seat position set with the memory one with all of her radio stations programmed and phone settings.
I use seat position two and I have no stations programmed and my phone is not associated with it. When I drive, all of radio stations disappear and go back to factory settings. She actually was upset because he thought I changed all of her pre-sets on the radio/XM. When she puts the driver's seat back to position memory position one, everything comes back to her settings. She noticed before I did.
I'm assuming you are using one of the memory seat functions to put the seat back to get out and using the other pre-set to make your seat go to your driving position?