Maybe in the minority, but my 2500 6.4 6 SPD is a workhorse. I tow bobcats, tons of rock, heavy trailers all over the place and haven't felt the need for the 8 speed. My towing is a mix of highway speed, up hills and mountains, flat, in mud and dirt, basically everywhere. I have towed a couple times with the 8 speed and don't feel any remorse with the 6 speed transmission. Maybe because I don't accelerate like a race car, I just let the truck do it's job. My truck shifts smooth, it is a nice ride with the extra weight, and recommend the 6 to anyone. Just for awareness I have 40 years of extensive towing experience across Ram, when it was Dodge, Ford, Chevy, IH, and even have driven Straights and 18's.
But back to the original post. The OP has the truck now, it's going to be expensive to do anything about it now. I say just learn how to use the tool they have and enjoy the ride. No reason to second guess the purchase, it is a good one IMHO.