broken wiring harness connector for projector headlights

[2023RAM1500ds]

Hi guys
was trying to add HIDs on my warlock, less than 1500 miles on it, and as i removed the wire harness connector, and went to re-insert it after i installed the HID kit, noticed the tab on the wire harness connector was missing.

i ordered this kit https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B0869KDCTQ?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details, question is how do i de-pin the connector? does the pink/ purple piece come off enabling access to the connect pin or do i have to depin it within the purple housing??

i cant find a DYI write up or video for it.

Also why are there two part numbers...68305265AA, 68316031AA for it? Is one number older than the other (i.e. is a suppressed p/n) or is one for the left and right side. Guess will find out when it comes, but help on how to depin the connector would be appreciated. That way i can mark which pin goes into which hole as i disconnect them one by one, rather than breaking off the housing all at once.

Thank you

 

[medicineman]

Are you wanting to de-pin the orginal connector?

 

[medicineman]

Those connectors require special tools. Check this out.

Amazon.ca

 

[2023RAM1500ds]

Are you wanting to de-pin the orginal connector?

yes sir i have the depinning tools but it's hard to see the the tabs where the pins clip into the housing through the " +"
opening.

 

[2023RAM1500ds]

Those connectors require special tools. Check this out.

Amazon.ca

i have a set! just want to know where the tab on the housing is to release the pins