I think I see why Ram made this choice...
Look how many people are posting here that the "auto" is just fine. A lot of you guys must not actually live in places that need 4wd. The fact that 4wd is just a toy and not a necessity for most of you is probably why Ram put it in.
Go do some reading about traction, weight distribution, and racing. A lot of that applies to driving vehicles on snow and ice, even at lower speeds. If you're doing something in 2wd and suddenly 4wd kicks in, you might have unexpected loss of traction. Or if you're expecting to be in 4wd but for some reason the truck is keeping you in 2wd, more problems again.
Binding doesn't just happen on dry pavement. It happens on snow and ice, too. The difference is that the tire can slip over the surface, rather than gripping the road, causing you to feel the binding. That still translates to a loss of traction on snow, so it's silly to have it randomly kick on/off when you are already on the move. A wheel that's grabbing the snow just fine might suddenly lose traction due to binding, and now the handling characteristics of the truck are totally different than 1 second ago.