I happen to be like that and my wife always said the same thing even way back when we met....
* Warning: Personal Opinion Alert * A personal vehicle's condition is a representation of the driver. I laugh when I see wry comments referring to garage queens or similar comments about people maintaining the exteriors. Is keeping it dirty supposed to be cool and rebellious? Nah, it's laziness and apathy - which doesn't make someone bad - but it is what it is. I use mine as a truck regularly, but when it's dirty I clean it. I wash it by hand, am not fanatical and don't examine it for swirl marks - but I clean it the first chance I get when it gets dirty - interior and out. I think it goes hand in hand with other aspects of life. I keep my lawn and backyard weed-free and manicured and the house is the same way - no peeling paint, no broken screens, no dripping faucets. No offense intended - just stating my opinion.