So I decided to roll with Thuren kit and 35s with a more negative offset wheel to flush up with my flares. I like the AEV Saltas but I'm not sure if they will sit wide enough to be flush with the flares. Anyway, you guys will love this. I called my tire shop to have him cancel and return the RC 4.5 inch lift. He told me that Rough Country told him they would charge him a 25% restocking fee because he is a dealer. He then told me the 4.5 lift would look fine with 35s and that the biggest thing I needed was a wider stance (I agree). I honestly felt a little pressured and ended up agreeing to install the lift kit and scheduled an appointment to install it. Anyway, still having second thoughts so I called Rough Country to see if I could get the restock fee waived because it was my order. They were extremely courteous and helpful and said they would be glad to take the stuff back and that they do not charge a restock fee. So this mechanic lied to me about this fee!!! Anyway that kind of solidified my decision. Thuren 1.5 inch kit it is!!!