I think with AlfaOBD you can set it to "police mode" which will allow turning off interior lights and approach lights. But I don't remember 100% what all it changes.For:
-Disable exterior back light from turning on @unlock and @Lock
-Disable dashboard lights from turning on @unlock and @door open
These were big problems for me at night when camping--blinds everyone including me. I removed the bulb for the bed light but never found a solution for the dash lights.