At the price of the 4Runnner, why not go the Lexus GX route?
Great post! It evokes memories I have due to working in multi-line Dealers over the years; chiefly GM/ Honda, but others as well.
The "culture" or beattitudes of the Yuppies of the day was "Dollar Value". That being said, there have never, in my life a group of people like Yuppies. Upwardly mobile Yuppies surrounded me in my young adulthood! Their basis of existence was long-game life planning. This embodied a certain "Control Freak" flavor as part of their aura. (not that it's a bad thing, necessarily)
This generation of consumers were the impetus of the late 70's/ early 80's success of Toyota, Honda, and maybe even Nissan (Datsun back then). They were the chief consumers of these cars. Attracted to the initial quality of these cars, they bought them in droves.
Lucky thing for these car manufacturers that the Yuppie clan bought them and, due to their Nerdly attention to details and dollar value, ACTUALLY were VERY consistent at keeping up with the maintenance schedules on them. I worked on those cars and noted that the maintenance logs in the owners' books were always filled out and done ON TIME!
This "control freak" practice had the effect of making these cars "more reliable".
For some reason, these same yuppies bought Volvos for their "safety record". Volvos were not as reliable as the Asian cars, overall. There again, doing the maintenance consistently and timely "made" all of these brands.
The social concept of those cars being "more reliable" grew.... from the facts I just stated, but also from casual conversations at Church, Family gatherings, Country club encounters, etc. (No better advertisement than word-of-mouth)
MANY of my customers switched to Toyotas and Hondas mainly for any one or more of these reasons.
These cars fell apart just as badly as American cars did in terms of trim, paint fading, and so forth, with the exception that more of them were better cared for, washed more often, garage kept... you know, given more and better attention.
My personal luck with cars seldom changed with brand or model, but I have always acquiesced to the fact that they are mere mortal machines. Not only DON'T they fix themselves, but ALL are made with inherent flaws. So, I dealt with what I knew and "beat the system" not by the inferred allure of "I never had to do anything to my car", but to the reality that they ALL need attention.