"Weird, my aftermarket Tekonsha brake controller does not have a CAN connection. Only +12 volts, ground, the brake activation signal, and the power signal going to the 7-way connector. I confirmed the 12 volt brake activation signal was present in the 4 pin factory harness when I apply the brake. No programming was necessary, it was already working from the factory. Then I just bought the cable from Tekonsha to plug in to factory harness. Has been working fine ever since."
I'm not familiar with how the aftermarket trailer brake system hooks up. Does it hook up inline with the 7 wire connector, or somewhere else?