I understand. I have a heart condition and when I installed my belltech kit in 100 degree temp, after putting the front shocks on, I decided I would leave the stock shocks on in the rear, for now atleast. I'm thinking about getting QA1 shocks.
I drove a little so far but it's still there. The relocation kit got rid of more of it though. I can still feel it coming on just before it starts. It will then start, and just as quickly correct itself. It isn't much of a wag/wobble (imagine like when a trailer is loaded incorrectly, but no trailer there).
Before the relocation kit, soft settings on the shocks were bad for the wag. Now, not so much. A setting of 8 out of 18 was pretty smooth. Just a slight wag between 30 and 60 mph. Over that (I took her on the interstate for a short 3 mile stretch at 70 mph) and it was gone in almost all instances. It only really showed up when going over bumps or a lane change that takes me over a raised center between the lanes (there are ruts in my area from studded tires).
Settings 9 to 12 shows a little more pronounced, but still pretty minor and self correcting, sway.
I'm at 14 now but I haven't had a chance to drive out of my little town yet. I'll get to try that this weekend as I have to turn into the local bigger town.
The faster I go, the less it happens. Over 75 with the QA1 shocks and it is about 99% gone at 14 out of 18 setting. Between 80 and 95 mph and it's completely gone. She's like driving a race car made out of clouds and held up by angels. Glass smooth and perfectly responsive.
I talked with a local tire and suspension guy that I trust. He's just as baffled. There isn't anything adjustable back there. Everything is torqued to spec. I have all the torque wrenches needed. I have all the torque specs for the entire suspension and everything is torqued to those values. The places I couldn't torque the nut itself, or had to use an extension, got an extra ugga to compensate. I rechecked everything when I did the 4 link relocation. All was still torqued and tight. Nothing loose. No play anywhere that I can tell. Tires were replaced last year. I don't normally drive much, usually around 10k a year, so the tires are practically new. There was no sway before the lower, so I doubt the rims are out of round. Unless stock was somehow keeping them in check and now it's showing with a more responsive suspension.