OK, thanks guys. I'm leaning towards the Ram at this point, as most of the time will be spent on the road, and I'm certain it will meet all my off-road requirements. Can you guys see anything important I left out of the potential custom order build?
"Ram 1500 Express
Regular cab
4x4
5.7L Hemi
Auto 8HP70 transmission
3.92 gears
Limited slip differential
Popular equipment group
Power and remote entry group
Rear sliding window
Spray-in bedliner"
Thats pretty much where I started, except I was leaning more to chrome. Folks here suggested looking at the BigHorn package, nicer interior, bigger radio, nicer dash, 20 inch tires, some other useful dodads for not much extra money, like LED bed lights, Receiver Hitch, Fog lamps, power fold away mirrors.. some may be in the express package I forget. When I went through the compare and contrast, the BigHorn package made a lot of sense to me.
Regular cab and rear sliding window probably not needed. I thought I wanted one, don't have one, don't miss it. Having a clear view is nice. The sliding window is more useful snow plowing where you want to run the heater to keep the engine cooler and need all the windows open to compensate. I only used the sliding window a couple times in my mega cab, to haul some long thin wood planks.
My short bed reg cab with 3.21s is a hoot to drive... with 3.92s... yikes, you'll be ripping the paint off. If you are towing heavy or pulling a heavy boat out of the water (i.e. using it more of a work truck than a transportation appliance), 3.92s may be more useful, otherwise you may want to stick with the 3.21s. I suggest you test drive both axles before making a long term commitment.
Oh, don't forget, you'll have to also decide if one of those $200 paint colors suits your fancy.