So if I'm understanding this right I can go back and forth from 2wd to 4auto on the fly. If I go to 2wd to what they call 4lock I have to slow down to 35mph to really make the switch. 4low I must be in neutral and either stopped or at a crawl to make the switch from 2wd, 4auto or 4lock. And I assume vice versa.
You do not need to slow down to 35MPH to shift into 4WD lock and have the lock mode complete, that is flat out rubbish, also the claim made prior to that, basically "the transmission must be in neutral when you shift into 4WD lock" is also rubbish.
Other than needing to stop or slow to crawl and put the T case in N to shift into 4WD low the only note on speed limit for 44-44 T cases has to do with top speed when driving in low range and what it says is "do not exceed 25MPH in low range". Their voiced concern is that over 25mph might over rev the engine, if you watch the tachometer you can take that warning with a grain of salt.
I live a few mile in on a steep dirt road that turns off in the middle of a Rocky Mountains pass at 6,200 ft elevation. At times it is impossible for me to go over the pass to town or get home without 4X4 so I have shifted my truck into 4WD lock at highway speed a thousand times and the indicator light virtually instantly goes solid show that 4WD lock is engaged and for proof if it was not engaged I would not make it up the pass LOL.
IMO If someones truck is not completing a mode change into 4WD lock at highway speed it possibly has an electrical problem with a speed sensor or something like that, or the front and rear tires are mismatched enough that the speed sensors think there is wheel slippage/spin so it will not shift.
Below is directly from the owners manual for my 2015 Bighorn EcoDiesel. Note in high range modes you can shift stopped or moving. There is NOT a mention of a top speed for shifting into 4WD lock or 4WD auto. Their is a note that if you are in 2WD and the rear wheels are spinning it will not shift into 4 auto or 4 lock until you stop spinning the wheels. If a person has ever tried to shift a conventional manual T case from 2WD into 4WD with the rears spinning you know exactly why they check front rear speed sync before shifting LOL.
8 SPEED TRANSMISSION
Five-Position Electronically Shifted Transfer Case
(Eight Speed Transmission Only)
2WD To 4WD AUTO Or 4WD LOCK
Push the desired position on the 4WD Control Switch to shift the transfer case. Shift between 2WD and 4WD AUTO and 4WD LOCK can be done with the vehicle stopped or in motion. With the vehicle in motion, the transfer case will engage/disengage faster if you momentarily release the accelerator pedal after selecting the desired position on the control switch. If the vehicle is stopped, the ignition switch must be in the ON position
with the engine either running or OFF. This shift cannot be completed if the ignition switch is in the ACC position.
NOTE: The four-wheel drive system will not allow shifts between 2WD and 4WD AUTO/4WD LOCK if the front and/or rear wheels are spinning (no traction). In this
situation, the selected position indicator light will flash and the original position indicator light will remain ON. At this time, reduce speed and stop spinning the wheels
to complete the shift.