a lighter truck is going to be more prone to hopping than a big heavy truck, because that big heavy truck has to "hop" the another 4,000 pounds. and just because someone else can make it through a given obstacle doesn't mean you can too. My opinion that there is no issue with your truck is based off my experience off roading. there are alot of factors that go into why one truck may act one way and another may act another. but i would definitely say that since you only experience this issue in the sand, when you are throwing sand out behind your truck, and your tires are spinning, the issue is that your not driving it in the sand right, not that there is an issue with your truck. every terrain takes a different style of driving. off roading in sand is completely different than off roading in the woods, and visa versa, so since your only issue is when your digging down with your tires, and your truck is hopping (which is an issue i have personally been in) there is nothing wrong with your truck.