I run 5w-30 in the summer, I ran 5w-20 last winter but may try 0w-30 instead (I'm in southern Ontario so it gets fairly cold but not "Mantoba cold".
I may try the 190F thermostat and the grill shutter delete.
I may also try the purolator boss oil filter, its cheaper than the Royal Purple I've been using lol. I also have a bit of what appears to be cold start piston slap. It only really appears when ambiant temperature is < 20 celsius, so I rarely hear it in the heat of summer on a cold start, but in the winter, yeah it's there. That's why I"m still trying different things, I'd like to get rid of that noise.
My truck only idles for 5/10 minutes on occasion in the winter (remote start). But there is a guy on youtube, "truck central", who has almost 1000 idle hours on his 2019 hemi and has no issues. That's a lot of idling for only 100K miles of driving (and he works his truck hard, towing so much weight his air suspension stops working), so again, I have to think there is something else going on other than idling and MDS; because those are all things we all do/have, and yet only a small percentage get the lifter tick.
I don't understand how someone can have 100 idle hours and lifter failure, and the next guy 1000+ idle hours and no lifter failure, and then yet we conclude "idling causes lifter failure". There is not that much difference in a very precisely built engine (all things considered). It's got to be something else, like a manufacturing defect (Rams fix/behaviour points to this), or poor oil filtering (not changing oil on time, or maybe your theory with a small filter, but only because small filter is getting filled with junk too quickly, or maybe not enough cleansing agent in the oil being used.)
I dunno, I'm going to stop arguing because this is outside my wheelhouse and I just wanted to throw ideas around; but I do have a really hard time accepting some of these theories simply because for many of them, in order for them to be true there would have to be a lot more problems than there really are. A manufacturing defect (poor quality control) can explain why 1 person has a failure but 5000 don't. But an oil filter that is too small, if that's the really the case and we're all running these oil filters, well there should be a metric butt load of failures and we don't have that. There are millions of these hemis in circulation, and yes we do see 20? 30? reports on one forum, but that's a very small percentage of failures vs the amount of people who come to a forum to complain about problems.
Same thing with idling; we have data that shows high idling hours without failures. How does one guy reach 1000 hours without failure and the next guys hemi is done at 10,000 miles? It makes no sense. Cop cars have many failures, but they also don't follow the recommended oil change interval (320 hours). So when a cop car goes down, was it the idling or the poor oil servicing? We all know they're not getting their oil changed every 2 to 4 weeks like they should be.
Anyway. My pair of pennies.
The answer to lifter failures is simple: if something hinders lubrication to the rollers, they're toast. It may be debris that got into one of those holes during assembly, or later on, or owner neglect and oil that caked on somewhere and then moved and plugged the hole. That's how a guy with 1000 idle hours is fine, while another with 100 hours has blown lifters. Because the guy with 1000 hours changed his oil on time, and his motor was clean, while the guy with 100 hours might have debris in an oil lubrication hole or some other factor that prevented proper lifter lubrication, or he just neglected maintenance or used the cheapest conventional oil and worked his truck to death.
If you take care of your truck, then you'll be most likely fine. High heat also causes the exhaust manifold bolts to shear off. That's another reason why I went to a 180F thermostat. I really don't want to do manifold bolts or lifters on this truck. But if I ever have to, Johnson Lifters and a CompCam go in, as well as shorty headers, or 6.4 headers if they fit.
I would recommend that you go straight to 0W-40. Mobil 1 FS 0W-40 is pretty much a full-blown 5W-30 oil, except it flows much much better than even a 5W-20 at cold temperatures. I wouldn't recommend Castrol EDGE 0W-40 in Canada, which is about as thick as Red Line in the cold. Add 3 oz. per quart of oil of Lubegard Bio-Tech. I use 7.5 quarts of oil in my truck and 22~23 oz. of Lubegard. At 5000 miles, the oil looks almost like new. I change it at around 7000 miles. You will beat yourself to death trying to find a good 0W-30. They don't really exist, as there no demand for that grade. And I also had piston slap when cold, it's because the metals contract. Since I went to 0W-40, I don't hear it anymore. Thicker oil can hide a lot of quality control and manufacturing shortcomings. Why do you think the Germans spec (or used to spec) thicker oils for their passenger vehicles? Their VW, Audi, BMW and Mercedes motors for their home markets aren't exactly a pinnacle of manufacturing excellence. But a thicker oil will make them sound almost perfect, not to mention they last longer than they should on thick 5W-30 or 5W-40 oil.