I've always hated the term "payload police"
While one may not like the advice, when you post a thread on a public forum, you are going to get responses. Some you may not agree with and that's fine.
Many times the "payload police" are simply folks who are more conservative than others when it comes to truck loaded weights. That's their right, just as its yours to disregard limits with your 2500.
The fact of the matter is diesel powered 2500s are payload limited as maddog correctly stated. At one time 2500/3500 shared nearly identical chassis components except for the rear springs (3500 got leafs) but I believe that changed with the 5th gen 2500s.
My 17 2500 has the heavy 6500lb rear axle, but not all of them do. Check your driver door jamb sticker to confirm. Mine is a 6.4 tradesman with a 3100 lb payload limit. The newer 2500s have a 6,000 lb rear axle under them, not as heavy duty.
By all means, its your choice how you want to load your truck. God gave us the choice of free will. If you load yours heavy, air bags are recommended.
However, regardless of payload limit....GRAWR is a number you do NOT want to exceed.