so I am a brand new member and a brand new owner of a 2012 Ram 1500. Truck looks to be set up for towing in that it has a receiver hitch, and all of the necessary plug ins. I want to install a trailer brake controller and am looking for some advice. I see a lot of them on the web that look to be easy enough to install. am I going to have trouble figuring out where it plugs in, or will I be splicing into existing wires. Help please! I read some posts about having something flashed??