Wouldn’t worry about your transfer case doing that a few times every week Clint, hold Traction Control button down until ESC is disabled in 4HI and let her dig while keeping an eye on the trans temp.
4HI in the 44-44 just sends the slip signal sooner to minimize heat, it will jolt you versus the Auto setting easing into the front driveshaft.
That’s another misunderstanding with this case, if you know you’re on a constant low friction surface just go right to 4HI.(freezing dry pavement)
What are you saying that causes excessive heat? Traction control on or off? 4lock vs auto?
I'm now tracking the advantages of the 44/44 on hard surfaces probably good from an AWD/crossover. It's loose stuff like snow, mud, sand where back digs in before the front engages. I dunno how much faster the front engages with traction control off.