I have a 2019 RAM 1500 limited with a 5.7 HEMI.
It has done quite well towing a trailer with a weight of about 4000 pounds.
I exchanged that trailer for a toy hauler that has a dry weight of 7000 pounds. I will carry my motorcycle which has a weight of 594 pounds.
Thus, the operating weight of the toy hauler could end up being 8500 to 9000 pounds. While this is below the towing capacity of the 1500 it is near the limit.
When towing the lighter trailer the truck was stable and steady. With the new trailer it seems to have more movement. It does not sway, because I have sway bars, however, there movement in pitch.
As we know, the 2500 is an expensive truck, I don’t want to put out the expense if I don’t need to.
1. Am I putting my truck, and myself, in a dangerous situation by towing near the maximum limit?
2. What do you think is causing the pitch movement? Could this be related to the hitch?
3. The 2500 comes standard with a 6.2 hemi, as I recall. Although this engine would result in less towing capacity, it would be adequate for my purposes. What is your opinion on the HEMI verses the diesel?
You are exactly in the same situation where I was last year.
I was looking at RAM 1500 limited, but then realized that the limited trim has only around 1200~1300lbs payload because of the added options.
with 1300lbs payload, you already have 400lbs for your family members, that leaves you only 900lbs.
Adding the motor cycle, it brings down available payload to 300lbs.
Basically, you won't have enough payload for your trailer's tongue weight which usually goes around 12% of the trailer weight. (8500lbs * 12% = 1020lbs)
that being said, you will need at least 2000lbs payload for your setup. (1020lbs tongue weight + motor cycle 600lbs + family members 400lbs)
That's why I ended up with RAM 2500 Cummins
1. Am I putting my truck, and myself, in a dangerous situation by towing near the maximum limit?
Yes, it's well over your truck's payload capacity..
2. What do you think is causing the pitch movement? Could this be related to the hitch?
There are many factors; Weight balance of your trailer, Wind, your Tow Truck weight, wheel base of your Tow Truck..etc..
A very expensive hitch such as Hensley or Pro Pride hitch can help eliminate the risk, I actually bought Pro Pride..no white knuckle, sway, what so ever.
I appreciated that I had it when I did a full emergency brake
3. The 2500 comes standard with a 6.2 hemi, as I recall. Although this engine would result in less towing capacity, it would be adequate for my purposes. What is your opinion on the HEMI verses the diesel?
6.2 Hemi, you get more payload because 6.2 Hemi is lighter than 6.7 Cummins. (Hemi gets about 900lbs more payload than Cummins in the same trim)
It's more than adequate for your set up, it can easily pull 8500~9000lbs trailers.
But, if you live in a hilly area, Diesel definitely works great. That's why I went with Cummins.
Hope this helps!