Why differ from the manual on something like gear oil? 75w140 for the rear. Consider that ever single crazy idea for fuel mileage and your manu absolutely does, vvt, mds, thin trans oil, thin engine oil, pre heated transmission oil in late rfe's and 8 speeds, adding gears to transmission, etc etc, and despite heavy oil giving less mpg's and they go out of their way to recommend 140w oil for their diff and you would "rather" run 90 weight? Plus they go out of their way to recomend two different oil weights for both diifs and that also does not give you pause?
From your manual...
Front Axle – 1500 Four-Wheel Drive Models We recommend you use Mopar GL-5 Synthetic Axle Lubricant SAE 75W-85.
Rear Axle – 1500 Models We recommend you use Mopar Synthetic Gear Lubricant SAE 75W-140 (MS-8985). Limited-Slip Rear Axles require the add.....
75w85 has a visc around 12, similar to 5w30 engine oil.
75w90 has a cSt viscosity of around 16.
75w140 has a cSt viscosity around 27.
Not saying what oil you should use, just posting up info so you have more info, if you decide on something else, hopefully it works out.