Alright, got my
mic in today and did a TON of testing. Sadly in trying to change settings I somehow lost my reverse camera. Works great if I pull it up manually or shift into reverse before the unit finished booting. But once it's booted "no signal" hopefully can get this fixed easily as it HAS TO BE from something I did my self in the menus. Onto the microphone:
Step 1) Desolder the red and black wires that connect the stock micrphone from the PCB that has the reset, hazard, and mic attached. I went ahead and soldered in it's place a short pigtail with a female 3.5mm mono connector so I could easily test things and attach mics.
IDEA 1)
So, I went ahead and tried tapping into the stereo mics using the info provided by
@Mpgrimm2 (HUGE THANK YOU!). I did get a signal but it must require decoding or something, unusable. So then I moved onto trying JUST one mic and tapping into at the mic source, pulled the headliner down a bit unplugged the mic from the stock harness plugged it into my own and no luck, very quiet signal probably needs an amplifier and or decoding.
RESULT: THe pinouts above are correct but the factory dual microphones appear to need some sort of signal processing.
IDEA 2) use the microphone above that I ordered as a replacement. Pretty simple to test and IT WORKED! Way better quality. Mounting it was the next thing to figure out. I popped the microphone out of the black cylinder and tried mounting it where the stock microphone mounts in the headliner (for the 2017/2018 that's where the dual mics are, not in the mirror) but the quality wasn't as good, I have a feeling the headliner and roof of the truck added some unwanted sound. So I pulled JUST the mic out from the stock location and sure enough sounds great. Is it a bit unsightly? Sure, but way better than sticking a microphone on the A pillar or sun visor I feel.
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RESULT: Useable mic, pretty happy with how it sounds.
Original Microphone in unit (note this sounds better than what I originally posted, turns out the app I was using as a dashboard has "use speakerphone" on for bluetooth calls, so this is with that feature off slightly better)
New Microphone
Final results: you be the judge but I think it sounds better.