OP, as usual, you've got a lot of great responses here...let me throw out another thought and that's how the truck feels out on the open road. I've been looking at upgrading from a '16 Rebel to a 2500 for about six months or so and I've test-driven everything from '17 Tradesman CTDs to '19 6.4s with the 8-speeds and the off-road packages. Some have only had 10 miles on 'em while others have had 54K. Granted, I've only hit the streets and highways of Dallas-Fort Worth during these drives, but I think I got a good taste of how these HDs roll.
To me, the best-riding truck out there (empty, mind you) has been the CTDs. Sure, they're nose heavy -- as are all trucks when they're unloaded -- but they just feel right. They really do remind more of my Rebel than the 6.4s and you'd think it'd be the other way around. Of course, my Reb has air suspension and rides really well, so that surely factors into it.
Should you base a buying decision on that? Of course not, but it is a consideration unless you simply putter around the neighborhood on occasion. We all want trucks that ride halfway decently, even 2500s, and we should expect as much in this day and age.
My suggestion, if you haven't already, is drive a passel of 'em (both gassers and CTDs) first, then go over the numbers. I know doing so has helped me tremendously...I plan to get a CTD in the very near future.
TXCOMT