I am having the exact same issues. Traded 2023 Ram 2500 Rebel with 6.4 to new 2025 2500 Cummins. Same boat trailer for boat, 2020 shore lander with factory installed LED lights. Normal process when hooking up boat/trailer to tow is back truck up to trailer, connect hitch, safety chains, and lastly install 7pin into outlet. Then I turn headlights on to verify my lights are working...Old truck, check, all working, proceed to go fishing. New truck...same process, truck in not recognizing trailer through lighting. no headlight setting works. Turn truck off, unplug 7pin, reinstall 7pin, turn truck on, go through headlights and maybe it'll work, maybe it won't. Been times I've had to stop/restart truck and turn headlights 8-10 times but if and when they finally come one, I'm getting pulsating lights on LED trailer lights. Twice so for this has happened that I'll go fishing, launch the boat, trailer is still connected to truck, 7pin is connected. Come back couple hours later when done fishing, retrieve truck to put boat back on and bingo, lights work as should, no pulsating. Couple days later, want go fishing, back to square one, start/restart truck to get lights to work, pulsating trailer lights when they do come on. Go fishing, come back, restart truck while everything is connected and works perfect. On 8/4/25, had truck at ram dealer along with my boat/trailer and they reflashed the ECM. Said wait 24 hours and go to go. 24 hours later, connect boat trailer and NOPE back to same BS, start/restart and pulsating lights. Back to dealer on 8/11/25 for round 2. Also son has 2023 Ram Power wagon and no issues with his truck and my trailer just like my 2023 Rebel I traded in. NO, it's not a trailer issue, 100% truck issue. Yes, Ram Care is involved but Ram Care is a joke and useless. Not exaggerating, I've called them 15-20 times this week and still don't know if I have an open or closed case because of the conflicting crap they are giving me. Case manager says yes it's open, "7eleven" rep tells me case is closed and can't do anything until I go back to dealer on 8/11/25.