Do the engine oil and rear diff fluid. Honestly the front axle fluid will be a waste of money at this point unless you have used 4wd a bunch a times already. With the center axle disconnet the front gears are probably not even turning while in 2wd and if they are it's not under a load so the gears aren't really wearing in yet. I'd just check the fluid level and unless you see a lot of wear metal on the fill plug magnet I'd wait to about 10,000 miles before doing the front axle. However, if your using 4wd often or submerge the front axle in water while "playing" with your new PW then certainly change it out.
The rear axle is really important though. You'll be surprised how nasty the gear oil will look and how much metal sludge will be on the fill plug magnet after 1,000-1,500 miles. Pull the cover, clean the locker magnet with a q-tip and refill. After that initial drain and fill you can follow the recommended change intervals.
In my engine I use Penzoil PUP 0w40 with either Mopar, Mobil1, or Napa Gold filters.
For my axles I use Amsoil Severe Gear oil.