Only people in forums and YouTubers recommend running the hellcat oil pump in non-cat/boosted applications (or people trying to sell you one) lol....
Sounds like a Costco station. If you're building for performance you're gonna be tied to 91 anyway. Pre-eagle with stock displacement and internals (cast crank) probably get away with 400-450 to the wheels (stock is 345 @ crank, usually about 270-280 to the wheels). For longevity & reliability sake upgrading the insides is never a bad idea, even if you just use a 6.1 crank and some better rods & pistons. 8HP swaps have been done in 3rd gens, it is fairly straightforward other than figuring out where to put the shifter. The front end of the 1500 isn't really made for the weight, you'd have to beef the front end to make it safe and it wouldn't be any faster. The power the diesel would need to make it significantly fast would likely start twisting the structure.
Most people who give outlandish advice don't know what they're talking about, including not realizing or knowing there are actual differences between the years and generations. "jUsT dRoP a 6.4 iN". A factory 6.4 is not a drop in for a 3rd gen. It will physically bolt to the mounts but that's where the fun ends. Whether you use a truck or car 6.4, the FEAD (accessory drive) is completely different, requiring hose and wiring reroute and extension. No PCM prior to 2009 will run a VVT engine and you can't swap one into a pre-CAN and have it work with the rest of the truck. You could change the tone ring and lock the VVT phaser but then you're just wasting the advantage it would give and may as well just go with a stroked 5.7 short block.
Honestly I wouldn't bother with the 03-05 swap because depending how far you want to take this, the factory ECM/PCM will always be the limiting factor. Beyond say 500hp you're better off getting a standalone. The Holley has been proven to work in 3rd gen electronic architecture and still allows use of your stock gauges (there is a 2004 with a stroked 6.1 & 8HP70 using a Holley running around Canadia).