Can you feel it? Yeah, but it's really nothing at all. Smoothest start/stop I've ever driven. Makes it totally worth it. The older Cherokee you had has the "old style" start/stop. All new FCA vehicles use their "eTorque" system which is crazy smooth.
Plus, I just wondered this week that if this start/stop feature does actually assist with braking too maybe the brake pads will last virtually forever in my truck?
P.S. on octane, remember folks the RAM owners manual recommends 89...
P.P.S. I do notice the weather related start while still stopped does pull a bit, so you can't be light on the brake while stopped or it will tug forward a bit. Again, not really bad at all.
Bottom line, get the eTorque. It's also much more than start/stop. Better MPG, better shifting, better stopping, just better period.