My heart goes out to you, sir. I lost my first wife when she was quite young. 2 Trucks... why not sell your truck AND your Camry and get a new truck with exactly the options you seek?
So did I - my wife was 46, it was fourteen years ago.
In fact, it was her that really wanted for us to get a Ram. We looked at used ones, test drove a couple, but we never got there. We were driving a '97 Dakota at the time, took it everywhere - raft trips, camping trips, Mexico. The following spring, about 9 months after she passed, I traded it in for an '05 Dakota. Truck was ok, but it dropped a major hammer on my psyche. I actually went into therapy for a few months after getting rid of the truck she and I shared so many memories with. I got my 07 Ram two years later, and my 17 Ram last September.
So I agree with your suggestion, SOCAL (the OP should get something optioned well, and just keep the one truck) - but also, if the OP has a strong wife-truck association, all I can say is, watch out. I was still grieving hard when I got rid of my '97, worse than I was aware, and it was definitely a mistake for me to make that change, at that time. Everyone is different.
Best of luck to you, TheKid7. Very sorry you have this awful thing to deal with.