I have not experienced this, my 2015 has the basic "quad" halogen reflectors and shortly after buying the truck I put low-glare low beams (wagner) and high intensity high beams (philips) . It is now eight years later and those bulbs remain functional and their brightness has not diminished enough to make me want to replace them.
The bulb voltage on 4th gen Ram trucks is regulated and you can adjust it using JSCAN, so if you want you can review regulator voltage and if it's too high, drop it a little. Dropping the voltage will reduce the intensity of the lamps but will also extend their life. If you see that somehow the regulated voltage right now is something crazy like 16v that would surely explain your complaint.