Ok guys I FIXED IT! haha no tech support needed. i worked late last night and was pretty tired of being out there, so i got complacent. even though i only got about 3 hrs of sleep last night, I went out and still caught my mistake. I just looked at the wiring diagram real close and figured out what i did. There is a blue wire (power antenna that doesnt get used) and blue wire with tinnnnny white stripe (remote amp power wire). For some reason i had the blue wire hooked up instead of the blue/white. I made the switch and now it all works perfect
In my defense, the garage is really dark lol