I simply can't believe that people recommend pouring 2 quarts of the old oil back in! My concern isn't the condition of the oil right as it comes out of the engine, but all the crap it picks up in the oil pan or jug you are driaining it into! Just slightly behind that is people suggesting to drive it 2 quarts low! I could maybe understand if you didn't have any other oil at all, but the fact that they suggest those two options versus adding 2 quarts of fresh clean oil that is just very slightly different. I can't count how many times I've mixed oil over the years when doing a change. Granted, I always try to have the proper weight oil available but there has been many times I've needed an extra quart or so to top off an engine and have used whatever is laying around (I'm talking new oil, not used oil and not like 90w gear oil or something........).
I have never pre-filled the oil filter, and have been doing all of my own oil changes on the family cars for 20+ years. We have had multiple vehicles that we put well over 100k on with no issues.......my last truck had 150k on it and the wife's vehicle had 130k on it when traded in. As mentioned previously the entire engine is coated with oil after you drain the crank so not like it is actually "dry" or anything. On a truck V-8 there is probably still 1-2 quarts of oil coating the engine after you pull the drain pan, even if you let it sit for 2 hour dripping.
100,000 miles is no longer a realistic benchmark. My vehicles are older. One has 166,000 miles, another has 230,000 miles, and the other has 253,000 miles. I'm confident in them all to get in and go from Houston, Texas to Cleveland, Ohio... no problem.
Cars and trucks today cost 7 times what my parents paid for their first house in 1956. My first house cost on par with an average truck today.... not near the top of the line. These 6 figure trucks common today OWE 450,000 miles to the owner.
I work on and successfully maintain and repair vehicles kissing 300,000 miles. These are good running, well kempt vehicles capable of cross country treks.