If it's just springs why not just add bags
It's not "just" springs. The 3500 frame has additional frame gussets and if you opt for a 3500 SRW with a 6.7 HO, you also get a 12" rear vs. an 11.5" . Airbags do not increase your capacity at all, they only mask an overweight issue. If the airbag fails all of the weight now sits on that spring.
If you're towing a 5th wheel I would suggest going ahead and at least opting for the 3500 SRW so that you get the leaf sprung suspension. I'd suggest the 6.7 Cummins, but know that it removes about 900 lbs of available payload due to the weight of the engine.
The below is my opinion based on about 20 years of towing everything from small bumper pulls up to 43' triple axle toyhaulers with Ram 2500s and 3500s and tons of personal research so take from it what you wish.
Everything below is based on 400 lbs worth of passengers, no aftermarket accessories on the truck, and a fifth wheel hitch weighing 300 lbs (B&W companion).
2013- current 2500s - Payload is the killer. If you opt for something such as a Bighorn crew cab 4x4 with the 6.7 you're going to be in the range of 1,800 to maybe 2,000 lbs payload capacity depending upon the trim level and configuration of the truck. That will leave you with about 1,300 lbs of available payload (pin weight) or a trailer with a gross weight of 6,500 lbs. If you choose a higher trim level then your payload will decrease further.
2013- current 3500 SRWs - You could get between 3,600-3,800 lbs of payload depending on the configuration. If you opt for the same truck as above, you're looking at about 3,100 lbs of available payload (pin weight) or a trailer with a gross weight of 15.5k lbs.
2013-current 3500 DRWs - You could get between 5,500 - 5,700 lbs of payload depending on the configuration. That leaves about 5k lbs of available payload or a trailer GVWR of 25k lbs.
At the end of the day, always buy more truck than you need. Never try to build the truck up to meet a spec.