It worked! I don't know if this is the right place or not but I'll post some pictures and whatnot here (hopefully it helps someone out).
I didn't originally have a heated rear window, but after accidentally breaking it 3 years ago I had it replaced (at a cost of over $600 CAD!!!) with a window that had the defrosting grid lines. Being in a Northern climate, certain times of the year make the rear window darn near impossible to defrost unless you're on a long road trip with the heat in the cab on COOK. Getting into the truck when wet (hunting trips and work) also meant having to deal with poor visibility out the back, so this was long overdue.
I wish I knew it was so easy because I've wanted to do this since I bought the truck, but could never find the right info. I thought I was going to have to scour scrapyards for wiring harnesses, relays, etc. . . So THANKS TIM!!!
This project took all of 30 minutes, and that was with my 3 year-old daughter helping me, so one could reasonably expect to get this done in 15-20 minutes.
View media item 30157For what it's worth, this was all done on a 2015 Ram 3500 SLT Mega Cab with the Cummins.
View media item 30158I removed the inside panels on both sides. The black lower panel pulls out first, then the upper panel comes off next.
View media item 30159To remove the upper beige panel, you have to remove the two protective caps/plugs (labelled #1). This is easily done by prying from the top and with something plastic to avoid gouging the plastic panel. Then pry the cap off of the seatbelt head, and remove this bolt.
View media item 30160Be careful when pulling out the 2 screws, otherwise they could fall down into the abyss where you'll need to do a lot more work removing the rest of the panel to find the screw (or get lucky like I did when using an extendable magnet tool).
View media item 30164This is what it looks like with the panels off.
View media item 30165This is the extra push connector you'll need to free-up, the drivers side had 2 pieces of tape to remove until it would reach the window port it connects to, while the passenger side had 3.
View media item 30166A closer look at the connector all taped up
View media item 30167We're FREE!
View media item 30168I didn't know how everything plugged in/was connected, but when complete the push connector is only open on one side which makes for a good and finished look.
View media item 30169I used the extra push clip that was already attached to the push connector cable and plugged it into the steel hole it's pointing at.
View media item 30170This is the button connector which will slide into your push connector on either side
View media item 30172When everything was plugged in, I tested it by blowing on the rear window and activating the defroster. IT WORKS!!!!!
Hopefully this helps someone out!