ok, for the record i wasn't born yesterday. I've driven about as many different vehicles for every year I've been alive at least ( 51) and like i said it may be normal for 4 door trucks that are made today but I've never felt anything in any of those like i experience in the Ram. my buddy said it's the same in his 18 gmc canyon. so it may be a crew cab truck thing but NOT an every car thing.
Just about an "every car thing" with today's aerodynamics. I wasn't born yesterday either and have well over a million miles of ass-time in a lot of vehicles. Anything I've had new since about 97 or 98 has done this. Some worse than others but without exception. My econo-box Kia Soul, which is now almost 8 years, does this and it's shaped like a brick. My 2004 Nissan Titan, 4 door crew cab 4WD, bought new, did this. My Buick LeSabre did this. My Chevy Lumina did this. My 72 Ford LTD? Nope, you could open anything you wanted. My 88 Honda Accord did, however, though nowhere near as bad as today's vehicles.
The buffeting is actually a sign of good design, not bad. It means the vehicle is so aerodynamic that the pressure can't equalize and thus the buffeting that you notice.
Easy answer to this: crack the front window and the rear window. Air flow and no pounding.