Hahahaha....I am glad I stopped getting involved with these towing discussions. But, I am so glad there are still people saying they have done this for years, there is some wrong info in the thread, and then give more wrong info that doesn't even pertain to the discussion!!!
I am glad the 150lb driver in payload is still one of the wrong things. And that people still look at max numbers and buy the one that is still a bit above them.
And we still have the DS and DT confusion.
All that said. I am bored at work!
There is no need to follow any max tow numbers, or worry about how much of a driver allowance there is.
Know you gross weight ratings. Front and rear axle, vehicle and trailer and combined.
I used to do this all the time and had the numbers memorized. I gave up! So, these may be off
GVWR 7100
GAWR front 3900
GAWR rear 4100
GCWR 17000
The first 3 are in your door Sticker...the last one from the towing chart.
Load your family into the truck and head to a CAT Scale. Full tank of gas and get the numbers. This will be the minimum your truck will ever weigh. This gives you the allowable tongue weight for the camper...but, remember...anything else you put in the truck takes away and raises your base weight. Load as much as you can in the camper.
Max tow number is based on a 10% tongue weight...a camper will have 12 to 15 on avg...so right away...that 11k trailer rating is an absolute no with a camper.
Ok, so let's hypothetically say you weight 210, wife 130 And kids 60 and 70.
7100 minus 1277 plus 470 is 6293 so 807 then a 100 lb weight distribution hitch...so 707.
So, a 7000 lb trailer is too much...unless you send the wife and kids into another vehicle.
You can exceed "payload" by a few pounds without dying, so long as you are under rear axle and can get the weight back to the front axle with the hitch.
But, I am probably wrong. I tow a 6000lb camper with a 2500 RAM...because we take alot of stuff in the truck...wood, water, propane, bikes, kayaks, etc. And when I see these guys with 1500 trucks I always try to see the expression on the wife's/passenger face...wish CB radios were still popular...cause I would love to know how they feel in the moment towing a 11k 37 footer....
Good luck, camping is a great pastime. I am hopeful that many are going to give it up...but still get excited to see someone getting into it.
There is nothing confusing about this. Finish up with your answers when you weigh. Thanks to "payload" you will be nowhere near GCWR of 17k...so spend no time concerning yourself with it.
PFA