3" rough country lift issues

[Canpolar]

ive already blown out a strut n have sepage from the front diff on the passenger side any advice on these lifts the strut spacer seems to be too big already not impressed with this lift

 

[muddy12]

is this the lift you have?
https://www.roughcountry.com/dodge-...Xt6gIVkIbACh0ZpQIVEAQYASABEgKR2fD_BwE#154=587

I have a 4" rough country lift on my 2012, and other than some very slightly accelerated wear-n-tear on some of the front end bushings, I've been very happy with the lift.

I think the issues you're having come more from the style of lift, rather than the manufacturer. Any spacer lift like that, that doesn't drop the front dif, is going to cause more geometry change (especially increased CV angles), and shorten the life of the front end parts.