33 or 35 is up to you but remember this, tires can be small investments we do every 1-5 years, it'll be in your best interest to take care of them for as long as they'll stay in the vehicle. From experience you can run 12.5" wide tires on 7" or 8" wide wheels but they will wear down funny and faster than they will if they were mounted on the appropiate size wheel. Follow the tire size recommendation and you'll have a better overall experience.
My suggestions from experience as well sell your stock wheels and use that money to fund aftermarket wheels with the correct witdh and offset. I don't believe in wheel spacers and i don't believe in skinny wheels with big tires anymore. Been there done that and the results were always less than desirable. I understand sometimes we put up with them because budget constraints or just because we choose to be cheap
i've been cheap several times and almost always have ended up paying more for something i could have afforded cheaper, had i taken the time to go with the more expensive approach right form the beginning instead of spreading out the amounts i was paying repeating the mistakes 2-3 times until finding a middle common ground solution i liked and i was finally happy with. Pay once cry once that's all i can say.
Good luck.