Sorry, I tried to wait until I'd finished, but can't. LOL
Took the Ram to Family Auto, the tech knows his stuff. He told me that the TCM is inside the ECM. He traced out the system and then tapped into the wires behind the TIPM. When the Cummins starts, the ECM sends a signal to the TIPM to the relay BUILT INTO THE TIPM. That relay sends power back into the TCM side of the ECM, telling the transmission to do its job. That power relay is intermittently not sending the signal to the TCM, thus Limp Home mode, next time works fine. He called MAKS about what is happening, they said to do a hard reset of the TIPM by disconnecting the batteries and tieing the positive/negative leads together for at least eight hours to ensure that there is NO electrical power anywhere in the Ram, thus resetting the TIPM. If that fixes it, problem solved, if not they will send me another TIPM. I did that yesterday at 4:30, when I get myself in gear later and reconnect the batteries and we will know.
Cost so far? Nothing. I think the bill will hurt, but so worth it to have my great Ram back to normal.
Next report later.