It's my understanding that the 8HP was designed to run ~190-240F
Despite that it's low mileage, your truck is ~7-8 years old, how is the engine coolant? Since you mentioned you notice lower trans temps with the AC on, that's when the electric radiator fan will be on continuously instead of just in response to engine temperature.
The coolant is a 10 year maximum service interval fluid anyway so it's not a bad idea to start thinking about coolant service. My 2015 only has 41k miles and I recently bought the requisite coolant & distilled water to do coolant service on it, will probably get to that before winter.
One thing that always bothered me on these trucks is the coolant overflow reservoir and the windshield washer reservoir are just little yellow caps on either side of the hood with a graphic embossed on them. Given how easy it is for people to make mistakes, I wouldn't be surprised if there are a number of Rams driving around out there with windshield washer fluid in their radiators