Honestly for the way it rides I can live with it. I am pretty much done with messing with the ram anyways. I picked up 2 jeeps and I'm making 1 solid adventure rig out of that and keeping my ram and it's nice mpg and road manners for extended trips.
As for dropping the preload. I too did that. I got a 1" thick (1.5" lift) spacer and dropped my 6112s to the 1" notch. I had to clearance few places for the cv boots, and I contact the spring at full droop with the wheel cranked, but my truck will not be seeing those situations. If it were I'd have done like you and jumped to the 4"
The 6112s are night and day better with low preload, so I hope you get you situation sorted and you can enjoy the setup.
You ever sell those Fox's? Your listing popped up on my fb a while back when I was looking for stuff for my ram. Waa gonna add you but that's creepy since you hadn't been on here.
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