Without experiencing the situation first hand it's hard to know exactly what is going on, or how unusual or non-typical the situation is compared to other vehicles. But in general the engine itself can only provide so much "hold bacK" force. If you are expecting the truck to always be able to keep the speed low regardless of the downward grade or load it's not going to happen unless either yourself or the ECM applies the brakes.
In any case I doubt the engine is truly accelerating as in the throttle is being applied, but rather just the weight of the truck and load is pushing it down the hill and the engine doesn't have enough compression braking to completely counteract the downward force, and hence it increases speed. The perceived change in speed, or hold back force, is probably related to the transmission and torque converter unlocking. If you are driving down the road and let off the gas pedal you just start coasting and don't get any major engine braking at all, even if you let it coast all the way to a stop. The ECM at some point will also unlock the trans and converter to keep the engine from over-revving. Yes, you can blow up an engine by over-revving it while going downhill even at no throttle....I've personally seen it on a manual transmission pickup where the person meant to downshift from 5th to 4th going down a steep grade, but went from 5th to 2nd instead. At 70 mph that caused the engine to hit over 7,000 rpm and spit a rod out of the block.....again this happened with their foot completely off the gas pedal.