I found a way to receive your own PIN CODE without the dealer :)

Procedures are the same whether you have a key fob or just the button. With the push to start if it says to turn the ignition on but don't start the engine, push the button twice without touching the brake pedal.

 

I was thinking the same thing. There is probably something in very tiny print somewhere though, that saves them from lawsuits. If you pay that much money for something and it is yours, you should be able to do what you want to it and with it. The dealership should not be able to hold you back at all. Everything is about control though.