The oil pressure gauge in your cluster is a dummy gauge. Daimler-Chrysler engineers, in their infinite wisdom, determined that the needle will remain near the mid-mark when values from the oil pressure sending unit start falling below 10psi. When this value falls below 4psi, it immediately drops to the red, chimes, and gives an indicator light for low pressure in your cluster.
Per the 2006 FSM (same generation engine as yours), these are the pressures you should see:
- Oil Pressure:
- Curb Idle–25 kPa (4 psi) minimum
- 3000 rpm–170 - 758 kPa (25 - 110 psi)
On the high mileage oil, don't use it, it is typically unnecessary in most instances. It's okay if you used it a couple of times, but what it does is cause your seals to swell. If used all the time, it will cause your seals to continue to swell until your leak is worse than before.